Hi, INTP female here, been dating ENTJ male for over a year. What does it mean when ENTJs are conversing less? Are they just busy with work or do they get bored of the other person? I'm not worried about this really, he's been distant before a few times but he comes around. Just curious.
Also, how do you know when the ENTJ is falling for you? His emotional display towards me has been pretty consistent over months. I know he likes me, just wondering how much really.
[–]gruia 1 point a minute ago
you cant summarize a reaction so easy. if you feel frustrated its most likely because your intimacy dropped. if intimacy is high your security level would be skyhigh, meaning you would know everything there is to know about him, and he would be at ease sharing it. think what fucked it up. I think its more your problem than his though, INTPs are the ones that are reactionary instead of being assertive.
take this example . man has a tough day with job. comes home with brain fog , seems distant doesnt offer the same level of intimacy / validation . woman notices intuitively and or consciously and starts mirroring it back at him. not sure if its basic human instinct, but he might start mirroring the mirror back also ) if the woman wouldve acted, talked directly when she felt/noticed the change, things wouldve been synced.
the idea is, the one who SEES the situation, OWNS the situation. you see something wrong, its your responsibility to go fix it. go talk to him
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