Paradoxical interventions
the best thing to do is let others talk about themselves and just listen openly and honestly. For this you must be fully present, in...
Extreme Emotions 1
anguish, anxiety, rage? It is a special combination of your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, when you are (or think you are) severely...
SI 3 - Normal
Here’s what’s “normal”: adults have sex primarily when they’re tired. This shapes the quality, content, and frequency of the experience....
SI 2
• “I want spontaneity.” • “I don’t want to communicate—I just want to do it and have everything work fine.” • “Why can’t sex just...
SI 1
For many people, sex is mostly about success and failure: whether or not they unintentionally hurt, disappoint, or annoy their partner;...
selfesteem art
When you stuff your feelings, they quickly build into the uncomfortable sensations of tension, stress, and anxiety. Unaddressed emotions...
abuse3
A verbal abuser will accuse his partner of some wrongdoing, blaming his partner for his anger, irritation, or insecurity. Following are...