SI 3 - Normal
Here’s what’s “normal”: adults have sex primarily when they’re tired. This shapes the quality, content, and frequency of the experience....


SI 2
• “I want spontaneity.” • “I don’t want to communicate—I just want to do it and have everything work fine.” • “Why can’t sex just...


SI 1
For many people, sex is mostly about success and failure: whether or not they unintentionally hurt, disappoint, or annoy their partner;...
we focus on other stuff. Why?
Whether it’s our big bellies or our increasingly gray pubic hair or our no-longer-quite-so-perky breasts, whether it’s our concern about...
The Healthy Habit Revolution by Derek Doepker
Inspiration the following are rules that if applied most of the time will lead to better results. of course there are exceptional...
Art of words
We should think of our persuasive message the way the audience does—as a behavior of the sender that allows the audience to draw...
girl interrupted 3
During a workshop, after a tense introduction , we had a relaxing lunch. Nicole (the coach) lamented that we had all returned to our...