brain 2
A vividly described outcome seems more likely than a blandly described outcome even if the vivid details have no real effect on...
brain 1
We have two different ways of thinking: (1) the automatic system—our nonconscious mental processes, and (2) the reflective system—our...
abuse3
A verbal abuser will accuse his partner of some wrongdoing, blaming his partner for his anger, irritation, or insecurity. Following are...
abuse1
Level One — Denial and Avoidance Denial and avoidance are classic abusive behaviors. They’re what the abuser is doing when he/she...
abuse2
VERBAL ABUSE DISGUISED AS JOKES It takes a quick mind to come up with ways of disparaging the partner either crassly or with wit and...
D3
Let’s continue with that glasses idea. When something happens in the world, whether it be to us directly or in general, we filter it...
ENFP [M/23] dating INTJ [F/20] (self.intj)
Me male, been dating an INTJ for now 3 months. I very much so crave the thoughts in her head. I noticed though she is on guard. What I...