“We have met the enemy and he is us.” —POGO
People often complain to inspire envy; that is: to brag. A person will complain about someone else as a means of saying that he or she...
“If we had no faults of our own, we would not take so much pleasure in noticing those of others.” —F
Here’s a bit of sobering news: You wouldn’t notice the faults in someone else if they were not also your faults. If you are honest with...


“It is impossible to suffer without making someone pay for it; every complaint already contains reve
Part of us that gets a rush from hearing bad news or from being in a confrontation with someone. Uncomfortable as these conditions may...
What DON'T you like about ENFPs? (self.infj)
submitted 3 hours ago by catladylaurenn This was asked on r/ENFP about INTJs and INFJs so I thought it would be interesting to pose the...
Overcoming hypocrisy and arrogance (self.intj)
submitted 11 hours ago by PickleChompINTJ On a consistent enough basis to be noticeable, I have people complain that I think I know...
INTJ to become ENTJ? (self.intj)
submitted 14 hours ago by Hybrid-RINTJ Is such a transformation possible? With the most fundamental trait, of breaking out from...


Changing yourself to get a girlfriend (self.intj)
no, social status is always the same, you are wrong to see it fluctuate. attraction / status is always defined by health(muscles,beauty), me